Following the post from yesterday, Mr. Smith submitted a short response from a man's perspective. (Don't you just love me having him on retainer? LOL!)
Recently, an interesting question was posed to me: Do you want to know the number of partners your significant other has and do you care? What a random and tantalizing question. Maybe my background and career as a man-whore makes my perspective odd or unique. I would hope not, because there is nothing I could care less about than how many men a woman has been with. Who am I to judge? I spent a decent portion of my twenties whoring it up. I was selective, used protection, and I was as honorable as one can be with a one night stand. But I was still a man-whore.
On to the main topic my loyal readers of someone else’s blog; Why should I care how many partners someone has had? Does this somehow affect our relationship? I shouldn’t care because the only number that matters to me is the number one. If I am with someone, then I am number one. The past means nothing. If you have been with one man or woman, or a thousand, it means nothing to me. Why ask? Because if I start caring about what they have done in the past, I will miss what we are doing in the present and that is all that matters. So gents, if you want to know the number, just ask. But don’t be surprised, and don’t let it affect the present and the future.